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Switches can’t be dominant
…or so I have been told every single time I have submitted or bottomed in public.
Admittedly, that’s not terribly frequent.
For one thing, I have much more to offer as a dominant than as a submissive – but for another, it’s just not worth the challenge of deciding whether or not to defend my identity.
I mean, to be honest, the sort of people who say “You’re not really dominant” aren’t usually people I’m going to respect in the first place.
But letting the assertion go unanswered is pretty damn frustrating.