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The “Not TOG but 35+ Crowd” Social

Are you part of the 35+ crowd and feeling a little out of place with the college kids? Perhaps you just relate to more mature conversational topics? If so, come join our Social/Meetup for The Older Generation (TOG) at the event hotel from 6:30p-8p in Salon A (The Demo/Teaching Dungeon/Classroom). This will be a great opportunity to learn about the event from others, mix and mingle, or just have a good conversation. To facilitate genuine interactions and connection, we kindly ask you keep your cell phones pocketed and silenced.


Hosted by Sir Vice & soumise

Sir Vice is an active member of the BDSM community with 15 years’ experience and manages Limits Unleashed LLC – a personal coaching service oriented for those in alternative lifestyles. He conducts research and mentors others across various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle culture. Specific expertise includes Power Exchange and related relationship dynamics (D/s & M/s), general BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism) activities, and general subject matter expertise in communication, relationships, and sexual & general behavioral psychology. He also has over 10yrs experience in the Chinese martial arts and meditation practices and instruction.

soumise brings her lifelong passions for movement, education, and helping people with her into the BDSM lifestyle. A former professional ballet dancer turned world ranked international style ballroom competitor, soumise has spent her 30 year career blending for the artistry of dance with the sciences of biomechanics, anatomy, kinesiology, rehabilitation and exercise. She creates and presents diverse workshops and educational events that engage, inform, and entertain participants of all levels in a variety of subjects across the US and abroad. Her time is divided between working with her clients and students, training other instructors and helping her Master, Sir Vice, with His business, Limits Unleashed LLC. With her Master’s encouragement, soumise has been enjoying the integration of her professional interests with her lifestyle training and experiences.

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Anarchy4All

anarchy4allAnarchy4All offers a large and changing product line to meet your kink needs. Products range from mild to wild, offering quality products at affordable prices for whatever your fun requires. Currently, products include a wide array of paddles and knives, along with a new line of great leather floggers & kangaroo whips; in addition to acrylic, lexan, delrin, & metal canes, and other impact, medical, fire, rope & rope accessories, sex & sensation toys. There’s something for everyone, from sensual to sadistic…mostly sadistic!

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Animal Instincts Dance Party

The Animal Dance party is the place to be your authentic self. This dance event is not about looking good or being seen. It is about unleashing your inner beast through music. Whether you identify as a type of animal, primal, spiritual or you just want to have a chance to let go with your voice and body, all are welcome.


Hosted by Babybeaver. BB has been in the fetish community for 15 years. One of their central philosophies is to help people be their authentic selves without shame.

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Aqua Zumba: Clothing Optional

zumbaCome join my choreographed cardio dance party in the pool! Getting up in the morning is hard to do, but once you are here, you will have a good time and be energized for hours! Clothing is optional, dance songs are sexy, improv and silliness are encouraged.

Plus, nobody else will see anything but my silly ass in the window dancing like a monkey nude to what seems like no music. Do you want to miss that? Clearly, rhythm and dignity are not required.


Stoopzkitty has been teaching zumba for almost 2 years, energizing and inspiring people with the power of dance (and laughter.) Also, terrorizing all the local mcdomlypants. Its good to be the brat.

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Ars Amandi: Sex Simulation

Ars Amandi is a technique for creating physical intimacy through the touching of hands and arms. Emma Weislander created Ars Amandi for the live-action role-playing community, but it has applications for negotiation, communication, and enjoyment in general. Come learn about this technique, try it out for both role-playing and negotiation scenes, and discuss possible applications.


Presented by unexpectedCake. unexpectedCake is an experience-crafter specializing in math classes and live action role-playing games. She has presented at previous GKE:NEs as well as science fiction and LARP conventions. unexpectedCake is serious about improving education (kinky and otherwise) and is silly about games, gender, and costumes.

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The Art & Power of Our Senses

sensesCome explore the many ways we can utilize Touch, Sound, Smell, Taste & Sight in our play. It isn’t all just sensory play either; a whole realm of possibilities is at your fingertips even when you’re away from your toy bag. Portable and free; all it takes is some brain power.


DirtyLilCowgirl has been a professional massage therapist for 9 years. She has a passion for sharing the art of healthy, consensual touch with others as a bonding and connection tool. As a service-oriented submissive it is one of her favorite skills to employ to get what she wants.

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ASMR (Gesundheit!)

Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response AKA “braingasms” is a sensation often described as a tingling feeling in the back of one’s head or neck (but not always there). Sounds or concepts such as scalp massages, bubblewrap (don’t deny it!), trickling water, Bob Ross or doctor’s examinations often get this pleasing reaction. Come to this interactive workshop to learn more about this neurological quirk!

* This is a hands-on workshop, so bring a partner! If you feel uncomfortable to participate, it’s perfectly okay to just observe.

Chaotic Neutral, Groovy Evil, Bringer of Cookies- these are some of the titles that can be applied to SweetGasp. Entrenched in the BDSM scene since 2012, they have worked to promote a safe environment for education, as well as bridging the gap between Muggle and Kinkster. Community and communication are the core topics in their talks, advocating for C3 (clear, concise, communication) while also mixing in sugar, spice and everything nice (and some Chemical X for kicks).

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Balancing Act

limitsunleashed_mainLiving the lifestyle requires balancing the demands of real life and the desires within the relationship. There are
always competing demands on our time, resources, attention, and focus. This discussion will look at ways to
think about our roles, dynamics, and competing priorities and help resolve conflicts between them.

Key points include:

  • Accepting the now – appreciation of thought is mostly false or distorted
  • Creative perspective – everything is possible, although not necessarily probable
  • Fluidity and adaptability – staying flexible with intent versus plans
  • Principles and prioritization – keeping what matters most in sight
  • Excellence versus Perfection – forgiving of self or others by being realistic

sir_vicePresented by Sir Vice

Sir Vice is an active member of the BDSM community with 10 years’ experience and manages Limits Unleashed
LLC – a personal coaching service oriented for those in alternative lifestyles. He conducts research and mentors
others across various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle culture. Specific expertise includes Power Exchange and
related relationship dynamics (D/s & M/s), general BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism) activities, and
general subject matter expertise in communication, relationships, and sexual & general behavioral psychology.
He also has over 10yrs experience in the Chinese martial arts and meditation practices and instruction.

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Blind Book Exchange

blind-date-with-a-book-1024x768Bring your gently used books to the blind book exchange. Wrap each book in brown paper, label it with genre, age bracket, and a general description of the plot. Pick up a mysterious new book to enjoy. Erotica encouraged!


Moderated by Kalita. Kalita is a Weapons Grade Boner Fairy, it says so on the internet so it must be true! You may remember her as that crazy redhead from the first GKE:NE who hosted a glory hole in a Tardis. This year she’s walking on the mild side and hosting a book exchange, stop by, say “hi”, and get some books.

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Booty and the Geek

bootyBooty and the Geek is a collection of fabulous and geeky spandex with sizes ranging from XS-3X in a signature high-waist fit. Our products flatter a variety of body types for an exciting and confident adventure in style. We currently offer booty shorts, specialty onesies and custom garments, all designed and made in America. Our clothing is considered vegan as we do not use leather, fur or wool fabrics. Booty and the Geek apparel is a unique addition to any wardrobe because of its comfort, design and body-positive message. Each piece is made to encourage people to express their individuality and embrace their fabulous physique.

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Brazen Bras Boutique

brazenbraFull service lingerie boutique offering professional fittings in over 150 bra sizes and everything lingerie. From fun and flirty to kinky and sexy to soft and cozy, we’ll show you what confidence feels and looks like. We’ve mastered the art and science of sexy! Be bold. Be beautiful. Be brazen…

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Bring Your Own Presentation

nakedpresentEveryone has something they find interesting and want to share with others. Come watch fellow GKE attendees share a presentation on a topic they are interested in. The topics will range from geeky to kinky so this is a great chance to find something new you might be interested in. Who knows? You might even learn something new!


Moderated by BigMeatyClaws. A professional Web Developer who sometimes likes to write about things. A lover of technology, video games (especially those), film, and TV, he has inoculated himself with pop culture. Also an avid internet user and meme looker-atter.

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CalvinBall

CalvinballCalvinBall is a game which never has the same rules, especially within one play of the game. In our version of CalvinBall, the game will be played with “fight” periods, timeout periods, and as always, ever-changing rules.


Uriel Rabbit is the inventor of the Hunt, generally a huge geek, programmer, LARPer, and kinkster of the most variable variety.

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Comic Book Shoes: DIY

Do you like comics and fashion? Come and create beautiful, wearable book art for your feet! You must bring your own pair of shoes (plain shoes without embellishment or laces are best). All other supplies will be provided. If you have a particular character in mind, bring a comic with that character in it. There will be a small fee to help cover costs. Seating is limited to 20.  A $5 fee is required (cash only, collected at the session) Sign up in advance using this form.

Saturday, August 13, 11:00 – 1:00 pm


Presented by DrKitKat. You may know DrKitKat from her many costume changes during previous GKEs, often going through four or five changes in a day, and frequently with unusual and fun shoes. DrKitKat is also the “Stage Manager” at Kinky Science Theater 3000 performances.

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ConCardia at GKENE

concardiaLearn to Play ConCardia
You’ve collected the cards. Now what do you do with them? You play the card game! Join us for a brief learn-to-play to teach you the basics of ConCardia. Then use what you learn to build your deck for Sunday’s tournament.

ConCardia Tournament
Glory, Fame, Wealth Beyond Imagination. These are probably not things you will find at the ConCardia Tournament, but you can win fabulous prizes from our vendors and have fun playing against other ConCardia players.


Hosted by Fireheart. Fireheart (Michael) has worked in the fields of sales and marketing for almost two decades, but sales and marketing is really just understanding what people want and finding ways to align their wants to your wants.

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Conduit Outdoor Dungeon Social Mixer

CondEnt Recent LogoConduit Enterprises is an organization that produces fetish & play events for the Connecticut kink community. CondEnt is very proud to be sponsoring GKE 2016’s outdoor dungeon, and we’d like to kick off its opening on Friday with a meet ’n’ mingle gathering. Join the Conduit staff and community on the courtyard patio from 8-8:00pm for the Conduit Social Mixer! Light refreshments will be served. Dungeon opens for play at 8pm.

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Dark Ageplay Discussion

Does your ageplay have a dark twist? Would it be considered edgy and taboo? Come join other Dark Ageplayers for a circle discussion in the Daycare.


Hosted by: Smallfry

Hi everybody! *waves excitedly*
My name is Smallfry and I’ll be your daycare monitor this weekend. I’ve been an ageplayer a little over ten years now. I like coloring, puzzles, and jumping rope. Feel free to pm me on fetlife about daycare.
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Dat Ash: Cigar Service & Play

erotivweratomicAs cigars are become more and more popular, it can be difficult to weed out the useful information from the not so useful. What do all those words mean? How do I figure out what cigars I like? How do I light this thing? This class covers a lot of information: Cigar anatomy. Where do cigars come from? Are Cuban cigars really all they are cracked up to be? Different types of cigars. Wrappers. Prepping cigars for smoking and play. What is cigar play? Cigar etiquette. And more!


Presented by Ren Laine

Ren Laine, aka eroticwetatomic, is a pervert with experience. Ren identifies as a sadomasochist, a submissive, a little and a monster. She is an experienced cigar jockey and boot black. She has been running Cigars, Boots & Chocolate. Maryland’s largest kinky cigar social since 2014. Ren loves to educate and often travels to teach, boot black and host CBC. She enjoys service and suffering and is almost always down for a good cigar.

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Daycare

Activities for Littles and Middles!

Friday:
8pm – 10pm: Littles sleepover!

Saturday:
10am – noon: Cartoons!

noon – 2pm: General ageplay fun. (Coloring, legos, etc.)

8pm – 10pm: Middles sleepover!

Sunday:
10am – 2pm: Open Daycare


Daycare Monitor: Smallfry
Hi everybody! *waves excitedly*
My name is Smallfry and I’ll be your daycare monitor this weekend. I’ve been an ageplayer a little over ten years now. I like coloring, puzzles, and jumping rope. Feel free to pm me on fetlife about daycare.

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Dungeon

Our goal is simple: Our mission is to create a better, different, more innovative dungeon every year, where you can both do thing you already love, and perhaps also try stuff that nobody’s ever done in a dungeon before.
Jeff Mach

The Dungeon is open through most of the event. Sex will be allowed in the Dungeon on Saturday and Sunday. Please read the Dungeon Rules and our announcement on sex in the dungeons carefully.

Indoor Dungeon hours and Sex Timing Chart:

Day Sex Permitted
Friday
Indoor Dungeon hours 5pm-3am
NO
Saturday
Indoor Dungeon hours 11am-3am
YES
Sunday
Indoor Dungeon hours 11am-5pm
YES


We made these rules recognizing our diverse community, the strong presence of new members, the limitations of the venue, and a desire for freedom of action tempered by safety. Mostly safety.

  • Listen to the DMs and medics. They are there to help you and have the final say on matters within the Dungeons.
  • Drug and alcohol use are prohibited in the Dungeons. Anyone found to be or suspected to be under the influence of drugs or alcohol will be removed from the dungeons and possibly the event. See the Drug and Alcohol policy.
  • Outside of the photo hours (which are the first two hours each Dungeon is open on each day of the event) no cameras, cell phones, nor other photo capable devices are to be used in the dungeon. Please turn your devices OFF and ideally, leave them in your room. See the Photo Policy.
  • The event safeword is RED. If a DM staff member hears red, they may come over to observe your scene to make sure everything is okay and give the top a chance to deal with the RED on their own. If RED is called repeatedly with no sign of stopping, a DM WILL step in and make sure everything is okay.
  • Please respect other people’s scenes and personal space while playing or in aftercare. Do not interrupt or join them without permission.
  • Please respect other people’s toys and equipment and don’t touch them without permission.
  • Touching other people without their express consent, regardless of whether or not it is sexual, is not allowed at GKE: NE. Doing so may cause your removal from the dungeons and/or event, subject to our company Harassment policy.
  • No solicitation. Accepting pay for sexual services of any kind is illegal in Connecticut . That includes BDSM, Professional dominant/submissive services, and “personal training” of an erotic nature, even when payment is made off-site. Solicitation is prohibited and violators will be removed from the event without refund.

Equipment

  • Needle and medical play are allowed. They must, however, take place in the medical play area.
  • Wax play is allowed. You must cover the floor before play and do not leave wax burners unattended.
  • Knife play is allowed. All items used for play must be legal to own and carry in the State of Connecticut .
  • Please clean up after yourself, including the equipment and the floor. Cleaning supplies are provided. If you will be unable to clean up due to the nature of your aftercare needs, please plan ahead and seek assistance.
  • Please do not monopolize any of the equipment.
  • Please refrain from intentionally releasing fragrances.
  • Please do not bring glass bottles or other breakables into the dungeons. Keep food use in the dungeons restricted and please do not consume meals in the dungeons.
  • Due to low ceilings, please limit whips, single tails and other impact toys to those 4 feet (48″) in length.

Sex is allowed in the indoor dungeon on Saturday and Sunday, and in the Outdoor Dungeon on all three days. Please respect these rules.

  • Penetration, manual penetration and penetration with toys, including strap-ons, is allowed.
  • Strapons require condoms.
  • Condoms, gloves, or other appropriate barriers are required for interacting with genitals or anuses, even for fluid bonded couples.
  • Chux must be used for intercourse.
  • Do not ejaculate into anything other than a condom.

The following forms of play are not allowed in the GKE: NE dungeons:

  • feces play/Scat
  • urine play/golden showers
  • vomit play/Romans
  • anus to anus contact
  • anus to mouth contact
  • fluid exchange

The following types of play require a check-in with a DM and approval of your scene before commencing:

  • wax play
  • knife play
  • blood play
  • medical play (see medical play rules)
  • play involving replica firearms.

The event and DMs reserve the right to stop play, restrict scenes, and remove people from the dungeons at their discretion.


Want to help? If you are interested in serving as a DM, or helping out on the Dungeon Assembly Team, please fill out the Volunteer Application.

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Fetish Fashion 101

Platforms, stilettos, ballet boots, corsets and more. How to decide what to buy, how to wear it and sometimes, how to walk in it. Why can one pair of 6 inch heels be so much easier to walk in than another pair? What’s the difference between different styles of corsets and which one is best for you? What’s the best way to lace a corset? Comparisons, demonstrations, and hacks to make life more comfortable will be provided. Have a wardrobe piece you are having a problem with? Bring it with you and let’s see what options we can figure out.


Presented by: soumise

soumise brings her lifelong passions for movement, education, and helping people with her into the BDSM lifestyle. A former professional ballet dancer turned world ranked international style ballroom competitor, soumise has spent her 30 year career blending for the artistry of dance with the sciences of biomechanics, anatomy, kinesiology, rehabilitation and exercise. She creates and presents diverse workshops and educational events that engage, inform, and entertain participants of all levels in a variety of subjects across the US and abroad. She has enjoyed presenting at TESfest, GKE, Fetish Flea Market, NEEHU and EPIC. Her time is divided between working with her clients and students, training other instructors and helping her Master, Sir Vice, with His business, Limits Unleashed LLC. With her Master’s encouragement, soumise has been enjoying the integration of her professional interests with her lifestyle training and experiences.

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Game Room Schedule

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GAME ROOM

FRIDAY

4pm – Midnight –  Game Room Open – come play games! We have a large library of games to play. (Due to the nature of the show, games are not allowed to leave the game room). Our game room staff would be happy to play games with you!

6pm – Munchkin

8pm – Strip Superfight!

9pm – Cards Against Humanity


SATURDAY

Noon – Midnight –  Game Room Open – come play games! We have a large library of games to play. (Due to the nature of the show, games are not allowed to leave the game room). Our game room staff would be happy to play games with you!

12pm – Learn to Play Race for the Galaxy

1pm – Strip Magic tournament. 4 pack sealed, $20 entry fee.

3pm: Come playtest Possibilities of Touch, a new deck-building, adult card game! Possibilities of Touch, making a game out of negotiations and exploratory play.

4pm – Strip Cards Against Humanity

5pm Elder Sign

7pm: Strip Munchkin

9pm: Cards Against Humanity


SUNDAY

noon – 5pm  – Game Room Open – come play games! We have a large library of games to play. (Due to the nature of the show, games are not allowed to leave the game room). Our game room staff would be happy to play games with you!

2pm – Learn to Play King of Tokyo

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GKTea (add-on)

tea-153336__180“Coffee is my wake-me-up. Tea is my hug-me-up.” ~ Sam Title

The GKTea is our renowned, friendly, welcoming event. Lovely tea! Lovely biscuits! Lovely people! Come in and make new friends, renew old acquaintance, meet your fellow attendees, and, in general, have an absolutely wonderful time with your fellow kinky geeks!

The GKTea is hosted by: Madison, tea enthusiast

Catered event available for $21.00 when you register.

Register now!

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Glow-y Pool Party of Awesomeness

glowsticksinpoolDo you like pools? Do you like parties? Do you like lasers and light up things??? Come to the clothing optional laser pool party!! Always one of the best parties of a GKE weekend, we close the lights, haze the space, and turn on the lasers. Come with your own light up goodies to add to the fun!! There will be music, glow sticks, and beautiful people! Come be one of them!

Please note, no latex is allowed in the pool to keep those with latex allergies safe. This includes light up balloons and body paint!

Also, no bodily fluids in the pool. Sorry, we need to keep it sanitary and safe!

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Human Checkers

chessWe will set up a board and play live checkers with a twist.
If the piece gets eliminated they will get “punished:” spanked/whipped/tied up/flogged/ whatever the other player decides (negotiations with each piece prior to game play).

Sign up in advance to be a piece or a player.
Sign up here, or use the link to the form.


Arbitrated by Jakal. Jakal is a clown. A magician. And a fan of fear play. . Jakal loves being an actor and creating horrific situation for people 🙂

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The Hunt – Intro and Hangout

The hunt is an interesting game of ‘primal hide and seek’ a ‘kinky ice breaker’ or perhaps just a ‘really cool way to meet people.’
Players will chose a style or play, open season hunters, prey, or private.
During the hangout we’ll meet other hunters/hunted, go over the rules of the game, and hand out wristbands.

Everyone interested in playing must come to the hangout to go over the rules and get a wristband.

Moderated by UrielRabbit

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Hypnosis, Doll, and Android Play

dartagnanHypnosis, Doll, and Android Play (Do Subjects Dream of Spiral Sheep)

Have you ever wanted to get deeper into your doll or living machine head-space? Does rewiring the brain for service, or creating that wonderful “ball and socket” feeling in your limbs really turn you on (like a machine, get it… I’m so sorry)? Do you want to see what it would be like to have a realistic robot butler, and happen to have a consenting and interested partner lying around? If so this may be the class for you. In this “please try this at home” style presentation, D’artagnan goes over some of the Hypnotic tips and tricks for finding your ideal doll (android, robot, golem, seriously have fun with it) head-space. Come out not only with some fun kinky ideas, but a greater understanding of how creative you can get with hypnosis. We’ll go over everything from the mental to the physical and give you the tools you need for the most enriching possible scenes.


D’artagnan is a New York based Hypnotist, producer of hypnotic (often horror based) audio recordings and a co-coordinator of TES’s Hypnosis group. For the last few years, he has dedicated an inordinate amount of time to developing experimental skills and techniques for kinksters like yourselves. Deeply (no pun intended) dedicated to developing his own skills and the skills of people in the hypno-kink community, D’artagnan is always looking for creative, strange ways to make use of hypnotic trance.

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Intro to Rope Bondage

Rope Basics: Single Columns, Double Columns and square knots oh my! Come and enjoy the thrill of rope through your fingers and over your body. Rope can be quick and harsh, soft and sensual, or cold and technical. The first step to any rope scene, is learning the ropes. Let’s take that first step together.


Presented by RainBeauBight. Beau is a queer who is enthusiastic about communication, consent, glitter, and giggling. They endeavor to use their background in feminism, consent, and social justice work to tie theory to practice in their kink classes. Their goal is to offer lessons that can apply more deeply to participants’ lives than a simple how-to. When not presenting on all sorts of badassery, they can be found knitting and learning about the latest in sex toys and sex-positive activism.

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Kink Consent Based Spin the Bottle

spinbottleAKA “Truth, Kiss, Bite, Flog,” Kinky Consent-based Spin The Bottle is a beginner-friendly framework for facilitating fun and even new experiences for a group of people, with mutual consent as priority one! (Also, it’s an awesome party game). In this workshop/meetup, we’ll start by teaching you how to play, and interested attendees may join in. Expect to discover fun common interests, and perhaps even learn to facilitate your own Consent-based Spin The Bottle games in $HOME_TOWN. You’ve seen the room party, now see the meetup/workshop!


Geo (afrykid) was a kinkster before they even knew what one was. Around age 8, they started collecting medical quackery, including violet wands. About a decade later, they had an “aha” moment. Geo loves combining their geeky skills and kinky interests in fun ways, and using their ambivert tendencies to facilitate group experiences.

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Kinky Candle Lighting

A table set for Shabbat with challah bread, candlesticks and wine. Black background, complete view.

Sponsored by Kinky Jews Philadelphia, we once again invite one and all, Jewish, not-Jewish, Jew-ish, curious, bi-curious, tri-curious (whatever that means to you), whomever you are, to come to the lighting of candles to bring in the Sabbath (Shabbat).

There will be wine, challah (yummy bread), candle lighting, and song. Feel free to join us and ask questions or join in or watch and tap your watches and ask when the next event is starting.

All are welcome!


Your friendly neighborhood science guy, Feivel always has hugs to give and probably something to blow up. Join us in Room 127 as always, for science, liquid nitrogen ice cream, and safe cuddle space. Join us in the pool for lasers. Join us Friday night for CandleLighting and Wax-Play. But mostly, just come and be happy. That’s what makes a Feivel purr.

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Kinky Crafting: Make Your Own Flogger

Have you ever looked at a toy & wished you had the skills to create one yourself? Or are you a crafter who has wondered what else you could make with your growing stash of materials? Come to Delirium’s Kinky Crafting class where you will be taught how to make your own flogger out of materials you can buy at any craft store. Whether you are new to crafting or someone who has a knack for fabricating homemade wares – this class is for you! Attendees will be shown how to customize their creation to fit their style of kink. All supplies will be provided – there will be a $5 fee (cash or Paypal) to cover costs. Seating is limited to 25.

Session full. If pre-registered  attendees do not show up, we will take first from the waitlist (closed 8/2) and then from walk-ins).


deliriumPresented by Delirium. Delirium is a pansexual switch with a penchant for polyamory. You may be acquainted with this ambitious Androgyne as the Assistant Programming Director of Jeff Mach Events. Being a vehemently vocal advocate of intersectional feminisim, the ability to work for events that focus on inclusiveness & creating a safe space for all individuals is quite a fulfilling aspect of her life. As a bit of a workaholic with way too many hobbies, Delirium is always keen on sharing skills she specializes in with anyone who wants to learn. You can find her on fetlife as VulpineDelirium.

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Latin Dance Class and Party!

Come and enjoy a sexy and fun way to socially meet new people and move your body. With over 15 years of dance experience, Atticus18 will teach you basics in bachata, merengue, and an intro to salsa. Stay afterwards for a Latin dance party to practice your new moves!


Atticus18 is a Latin dance aficionado that wants to spread the fun in a simple and sexy way.

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Leather and Littles

Leather and Littles is a lecture and discussion based class for Littles, Middles, and Bigs interested in exploring leather in an ageplay or little setting. We will review leather history briefly, the significance of leather in our community, and then discuss the various ways of implementing leather into ageplay!


Presented by nothing.  nothing (aka boy maxwell) is a genderqueer, gray asexual bootblack and presenter with a passion for humiliation, degradation, and objectification as well as age play. They have taught for Geeky Kink Event Classic, Dark Odyssey, Indecent Enterprises, and Black Rose. P.S. bubbles.

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Let’s Make a Date! Cosplay Edition

The panel will be set up like the Dating Game on Whose Line Is It Anyway? There will be an emcee or two, and 4 characters on stage playing the game. 1 is the questioner and the other 3 are the contestants. The questioner cannot see the contestants, so as to eliminate an unfair advantage. Some audience members will be asked to participate as contestants (in-character) to make it more fun. The 18+ version is allowed to be raunchier than the all-ages version, with no language restrictions and the content can be adult-oriented.


pleasantnightmareHosted by Pleasant Nightmare Burlesque – A performance art troupe for the impure of heart. Scintillating sinners, debaucherous dames, and naughty nerds of all genders and orientations, welcome! From the skinny and sexy to the voluptuous vixen, we’ll have you all. That includes you gentlemen folk as well!

Specializing in ‘Nerd-lesque’ (nerd-themed burlesque) and performance art, we give you a taste of bawdy humour with mixed dance styles and a side of education! Think burlesque is all about striptease? Think again! We delight in denouncing the common misconceptions of our art and scorning unattainable societal beauty ideals.

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Let’s Get Medieval: Hypnotic Torture

dartagnanLet’s Get Medieval, a Simple Guide to Hypnotic Torture

Racks and shackles and iron maidens oh my! How cool would it be to turn an unassuming room or play space into a full on torture chamber? Wouldn’t it be awesome to turn a simple bed of desk into a rack or a simple snap of the fingers into a great big pain explosion? If any of those questions excited you, then you’re probably the kind of beautifully twisted person who would get something out of this class. Join D’artagnan for a discussion and series of demos on how to maim and torture (in all the most fun consensual ways of course) someone with the power of suggestion.


D’artagnan is a New York based Hypnotist, producer of hypnotic (often horror based) audio recordings and a co-coordinator of TES’s Hypnosis group. For the last few years, he has dedicated an inordinate amount of time to developing experimental skills and techniques for kinksters like yourselves. Deeply (no pun intended) dedicated to developing his own skills and the skills of people in the hypno-kink community, D’artagnan is always looking for creative, strange ways to make use of hypnotic trance.

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Madame Wiladina Boutique

wiladina3Our helpful crew will find the perfect corset for you.We love helping you find your kick ass curves. From steampunk, Cosplay, to fetish our corsets are for you. We help you create an entire look with our tops, skirts, and lingerie . We believe strongly in no body shaming.

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Making A Better FetLife: A Meetup

As FetLife has shut down registration and is only letting new members in via an invite system, Jeff Mach Events in general and GKE in particular need to look toward other social networks to expand its reach to new people. We will discuss developing alternatives to the current FetLife structure to ensure that newcomers to GKE can stay in touch with the community, go to local munches, and so on. See more detail at https://fetlife.com/groups/77325/group_posts/9493516


Presented by Kirowen & QnMark

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Making the Connection

Why is it so hard to meet people? Whether you are looking for a play partner for the evening or a partner for life, it can be difficult to make a connection. Why can some people play as much as they want at an event like GKE, while others watch from the sidelines? It’s not about how you look. It’s about what you do. In this workshop, we will discuss techniques, strategies and mindsets to find a partner and create a connection, but we will do so with a constant awareness that our potential partners are *people* to be treated with respect and honesty at all times. This is not a workshop for pickup artists. It is for good, honest people looking to have a safe, sane, consensual time with other good people.


Presented by Fireheart. Fireheart (Michael) has worked in the fields of sales and marketing for almost two decades, but sales and marketing is really just understanding what people want and finding ways to align their wants to your wants.

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Massage as Service: Hands

handsIn this hands-on class, we’ll be exploring basic hand massage and how we can apply it as a form of service. For those not specifically service-oriented, come learn how to give a great hand massage. Partners not required but consent IS. We’ll try to pair everyone up that wishes to be.


DirtyLilCowgirl has been a professional massage therapist for 9 years. She has a passion for sharing the art of healthy, consensual touch with others as a bonding and connection tool. As a service-oriented submissive it is one of her favorite skills to employ to get what she wants.

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Meet and Beat Dinner (Add-on)

At a dinner party one should eat wisely but not too well, and talk well but not too wisely.”
W.. Somerset Maugham

(Beatings Optional, But Some Shy People Prefer Them To Meetings.  We Try To Make Both Sorts Of Folk Happy)

Available for $42.00 as an add-on when you register!

Hosting the dinner will Vonka and Mr. Khon who will lead a discussion on negotiations and demo aspects of play. In addition there will be a short burlesque show featuring performers from the upcoming NJ Burlesque Festival -www.njburlesquefestival.com.

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Mel’s Magikal Meals

mels GKE 16 MenuWe’ve got a food truck at GKE: NE!

Mel’s Magikal Meals offers Hot Dogs with Gourmet Toppings, and out of this world empanadas. She’s worked up a special menu for GKE:NE. She’ll be parked outside – but it’s worth slipping into something street-legal for some fabulous food!

Delivery will be available during the weekend – the food truck will have copies of the menu, and you can text/call my, place your order and we will bring it to you!!!

So Excited to bring my food, and the first event with the expanded menu!!

Click the menu for a larger image!

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MSW Candles

mswMSW Candles has been making candles for the wax player since Oct. 2012. With a variety of sizes, colors and waxes there’s a candle for everyone. We carry black light reactive candles, wax play supplies, beginner kits, Leather scented candles and more. We can have the candle for you.

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My Little Pony Meetup

Come and talk about your favorite ponies and episodes. Even if you’re not a part of the Friendship is Magic fandom, come and share your love of whatever generation you enjoy.


brave_danceHosted by Brave_Dance – just a fun, loving geeky guy who loves getting people together to talk, laugh and learn new things whether it’s about real issues or other important issues, like ponies.

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Naughty Munchausen

munchausenGKEThe members of the Munchausen Society are world-travelling explorers with grand tales to tell. Every now and again, they get together to tell some of the stories that they normally don’t get to tell. What will they say?


Moderated by Dreamsleeper – just a guy, looking to bring some fun and interesting excitement.

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New Experience Scavenger Hunt

Pick up your info sheet/checklist at the Information Desk any time throughout GKE:NE!  Get outside your head and meet some fellow kinksters by completing some fun tasks and challenges. Attend a meetup, tell a presenter you liked their class, ask a question or demo a new toy, tour the dungeon, volunteer! Collect points for prizes on Sunday.


Hosted by Pandora. Pandora is a kinky poly bi submissive switch. She has been in the scene for six years or so and has more sex toys than shoes.

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One Geek’s Show

Let’s get down to business (to defeat the Huns). I got jokes about Pokemon and Digimon. About Doctor Who and Game of Thrones. Old school gaming and new school gaming. World of Warcraft? That, too. And I may even take shots at my beloved, My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic. Come join me for laughs and share in geeky revelry and stories about all manner of fandoms.


Brave_Dance is just a fun, loving geeky guy who loves getting people together to talk, laugh and learn new things whether it’s about real issues or other important issues, like ponies.

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Paws and Claws: Primal Meet and Mosh

Come in your favorite petplay gear to play with other pets and primals! Meet other like-minded individuals and let your inner animal out! There will be some toys provided, but please use these at your own risk. The-Cutest-Puppy will be available to answer any questions on petplay during this time, and will probably be available to pet and play with as well! As a “demo bottom” of course (and totally not because puppies love to be pet!)


Hosted by The-Cutest_Puppy. It’s official! I am The-Cutest-Puppy! I’ve been in the public scene for two years, and a puppy publicly for a year. I have a shapeshift personality: depending on the day, my gender, age, and species change. From playing pretend, to buying my first collar as a freshman in high school, all the way to where I am today, I have been a petplayer my entire life! I have also been kinky for as long as I can remember, too, long before I joined the community. Although I am relatively new, I have a lot of experience to share in petplay.

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Pet Play: do it like an animal

Are you looking to get into (human) pet play? Are you a pet player who wants some fresh ideas? Are you a (human) pet owner looking for some fun new activities to do with your pet? This class is the for you! While the focus is mostly on puppy play, we will discuss all kinds of pet play and all pets and handler types are welcome. Kitties, ponies, foxes, wolves, beasts and alpha dogs are also discussion topics. We will talk about both “head space” pet play, humiliation pet play and sexual pet play. Lots of ideas for you and your human-animal friend.


Presented by  Ren Laine

Ren Laine, aka eroticwetatomic, is a pervert with experience. Ren identifies as a sadomasochist, a submissive, a little and a monster. She is an experienced cigar jockey and boot black. She has been running Cigars, Boots & Chocolate. Maryland’s largest kinky cigar social since 2014. Ren loves to educate and often travels to teach, boot black and host CBC. She enjoys service and suffering and is almost always down for a good cigar.

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Pleasant Nightmare Burlesque

pleasantnightmareDo you fancy the finer things in life? Like spending your evenings where there’s women, wine and song? Well, we can’t give you the wine, but we can provide you with song! Oh yeah, men and women too! Come enjoy an interactive variety show (aka ‘cabaret’ or ‘burlesque’) where you can watch characters from movies, anime, games and more perform for you! You may see drag, striptease, sideshow, varied dance and a lot more! Join us for an evening of Pleasant Nightmares that will leave you wanting more!


A performance art troupe for the impure of heart. Scintillating sinners, debaucherous dames, and naughty nerds of all genders and orientations, welcome! From the skinny and sexy to the voluptuous vixen, we’ll have you all. That includes you gentlemen folk as well!

Specializing in ‘Nerd-lesque’ (nerd-themed burlesque) and performance art, we give you a taste of bawdy humour with mixed dance styles and a side of education! Think burlesque is all about striptease? Think again! We delight in denouncing the common misconceptions of our art and scorning unattainable societal beauty ideals.

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Power Exchange & Communication through Ballroom Dance

Power Exchange & Communication through Ballroom Dance: Titillating Tango

Learn new communication skills and experience a power exchange at a totally different level while you pick up new moves to show off on the dance floor. The roles of leader and follower are both of equal importance in a successful partnership, but the responsibilities of each are very different. Whether you think you have 2 left feet or are ready to appear on “Dancing With the Stars”, you will have fun exploring relationship dynamics and communication through this non-traditional approach. Partners helpful, but not required.


Presented by: soumise. soumise brings her lifelong passions for movement, education, and helping people with her into the BDSM lifestyle. A former professional ballet dancer turned world ranked international style ballroom competitor, soumise has spent her 30 year career blending for the artistry of dance with the sciences of biomechanics, anatomy, kinesiology, rehabilitation and exercise. She creates and presents diverse workshops and educational events that engage, inform, and entertain participants of all levels in a variety of subjects across the US and abroad. She has enjoyed presenting at TESfest, GKE, Fetish Flea Market, NEEHU and EPIC. Her time is divided between working with her clients and students, training other instructors and helping her Master, Sir Vice, with His business, Limits Unleashed LLC. With her Master’s encouragement, soumise has been enjoying the integration of her professional interests with her lifestyle training and experiences.

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Protocols

limitsunleashed_mainProtocols are a common feature in power exchange relationships. This workshop reviews how they are used to
build and maintain a strong household and relationship with your submissive or slave. Explore how daily habits,
rules, and forms can train, educate, and promote a strong sense of wellbeing, ownership, and commitment.

Key points include:

  • Introduction and definitions
  • Types of protocols by focus: Physical, Behavioral, Psycho-Emotional
  • Planning/designing protocols for impact and effect
  • The importance of consistency and adaptability
  • Implementation house rules, public rules, and timing
  • Detailed review of examples you can use tonight – featuring “high protocol night” among others

sir_vicePresented by Sir Vice

Sir Vice is an active member of the BDSM community with 10 years’ experience and manages Limits Unleashed
LLC – a personal coaching service oriented for those in alternative lifestyles. He conducts research and mentors
others across various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle culture. Specific expertise includes Power Exchange and
related relationship dynamics (D/s & M/s), general BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism) activities, and
general subject matter expertise in communication, relationships, and sexual & general behavioral psychology.
He also has over 10yrs experience in the Chinese martial arts and meditation practices and instruction.

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Psychological Warfare

limitsunleashed_mainPsychological Warfare – Humiliation in Punishment

Humiliation has several purposes; this one goes right for the throat by exploring “cruel & unusual” ways to
torture your submissive for punishment or personal enjoyment. For the ethically evil, creatively chaotic, and
mischievously minded – and their adoring victims. Duration 90 minutes.

Key points include:

  • Building the foundation for discussion
  • Discovering strengths & weaknesses
  • Buttons, levers, and strings
  • Exploration & Adaptability
  • Uses for Good & Evil

sir_vicePresented by Sir Vice

Sir Vice is an active member of the BDSM community with 10 years’ experience and manages Limits Unleashed
LLC – a personal coaching service oriented for those in alternative lifestyles. He conducts research and mentors
others across various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle culture. Specific expertise includes Power Exchange and
related relationship dynamics (D/s & M/s), general BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism) activities, and
general subject matter expertise in communication, relationships, and sexual & general behavioral psychology.
He also has over 10yrs experience in the Chinese martial arts and meditation practices and instruction.

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Quacken the MegaDuck: Photo Hour

rubberduckCome meet Quacken on Friday evening, and get your photo taken with our MegaDuck.

Quacken is making their debut courtesy of attendee and all-round good egg “BigMeatyClaws.”

And a note of warning: texting “rubber duck” can have unfortunate (or fortunate) autocorrect results, depending on the recipient.

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Rope Bottoming: Intermedi-ish

ropeWhat makes a good rope bottom? You’re guaranteed to get a different answer from the tops and from the bottoms. This class will attempt to bridge the communication gap between rigger and bottom, while providing safety and body awareness tips for bottoms – which is valuable information for folks on both sides of the rope. This is a lecture/discussion with a workshop component. One of the exercises is partnered and will require a few pieces of rope (of your choosing).


Presented by NercoreBecca. NerdcoreBecca has been tying and being tied for over 3 and a half years and doesn’t plan on stopping anytime soon

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Rope Games

Play games, test your skills, and laugh a hell of a lot in this rousing class of fun and frivolity! Rope players of all skill levels and styles are welcome to come join the fun! (HANDS ON)


Presented by RainBeauBight. Beau is a queer who is enthusiastic about communication, consent, glitter, and giggling. They endeavor to use their background in feminism, consent, and social justice work to tie theory to practice in their kink classes. Their goal is to offer lessons that can apply more deeply to participants’ lives than a simple how-to. When not presenting on all sorts of badassery, they can be found knitting and learning about the latest in sex toys and sex-positive activism.

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Rose Flogging: Petals for Sensation Play

redroseLearn how the most ouchy part of the rose isn’t always the thorn, how to administer a rose flogging, how to select roses for flogging, and how to engage all the senses in this innovative method of impact play.


polyphonistPolyphonist (Geneviève) is a polyamorous, panromantic, demisexual writer, water fitness instructor, singer, burlesque dancer, actress, and activist. She is the Artistic & Programming Director for Jeff Mach Events and co-founded The White Elephant Burlesque Society, where she spent six years dancing, singing, choreographing, and co-directing before semi-retiring three and a half years ago. Her YA short stories have been commissioned and published online at youngentertainmentmag.com and her erotica can be found in The First Annual Geeky Kink Anthology. A self-proclaimed musical theatre geek, she knows all the words to Les Misèrables will happily do “Confrontation” with anyone willing to sing Javert’s role. Visit her blog @ polyesque.wordpress.com

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Roundtable – Ugly Secrets

limitsunleashed_mainNo matter what side of the slash you may be on, we are all facing battles others often know little about. Trying
to keep ourselves confident, healthy and balanced isn’t always as easy feat. Life always seems to present
challenges and stresses no matter where we go, and we must rise to the occasion each time. But we’re human,
and this can cause us to feel depressed, exhausted, frustrated, impatient, etc. How can we manage a healthy
relationship and dynamic while balancing the reality of our resources, emotional state, and the difficulties is
what this session is all about. Moderated Group Discussion.


sir_vicePresented by Sir Vice

Sir Vice is an active member of the BDSM community with 10 years’ experience and manages Limits Unleashed
LLC – a personal coaching service oriented for those in alternative lifestyles. He conducts research and mentors
others across various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle culture. Specific expertise includes Power Exchange and
related relationship dynamics (D/s & M/s), general BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism) activities, and
general subject matter expertise in communication, relationships, and sexual & general behavioral psychology.
He also has over 10yrs experience in the Chinese martial arts and meditation practices and instruction.

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Sadistic Math

Combine your geek and kink sides in this demo and discussion of integrating mathematical challenges into your scenes. From the hardest counting games, to topological rope puzzles, to mathematical trick questions, explore the joys of mathematical predicaments. Only basic arithmetic is needed to participate, but advanced concepts with be touched on. You may wish to bring pencil, paper, 12 foot length rope, and your own ideas!


Presented by unexpectedCake. unexpectedCake is an experience-crafter specializing in math classes and live action role-playing games. She has presented at previous GKE:NEs as well as science fiction and LARP conventions. unexpectedCake is serious about improving education (kinky and otherwise) and is silly about games, gender, and costumes.

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Safer Blowjobs: All Wrapped Up and Sexy as Hell

After hijacking more than one class on cock sucking with the “what about condoms?” question, stranjbird found others begging to teach them her ways. In a hands (and mouth!) on class, you will learn some of the key differences between giving head with or without a condom and how to give your partner brain-breaking pleasure either way. This class has a slight bias towards organic/bio-cocks, but techniques for hot, connective play with strap-on’s will also apply. Please bring your own cock (bio or removable!) if you wish to follow along.


Presented by Sam stranjbird – a polyamorous, demisexual slut who straddles the enthusiastically kinky/geeky line. She is intensely curious about almost everything, especially human behavior. She enjoys sharing her unconventional perspectives on varied topics, grounded in in her knowledge as a licensed clinician, and disaster responder. But mostly as a student of all things weird.

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So You Think You Know Hentai?

Attention perverts, anime fans, porn lovers, and smut enthusiasts! Do you spend hours fantasizing over what a tentacle monster would really do to a helpless girl? Have you watched Bible Black a time or two? Do you think you know ANYTHING about hentai? Come test your wits at this raunchy trivia game!


kuronekoModerated by Kuroneko. When KuroNeko isn’t binging on anime or forgetting it’s past her bed time because she’s stuck in a boss fight, she’s moderating HVTNG, the Hudson Valley’s premier group for kinksters 18 to 35! Kuro has been active in the scene for almost 3 years now and she’s looking to play her part this year in having both the kinky and geeky worlds collide in this year’s GKE.

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Somerville Variations and Applications

The starting point for many elements of rope bondage is the basic one column tie, but which basic one column should we use? Popularized by the rigger Topologist in Somerville Massachusetts in 2009, the Somerville Bowline is a particularly secure choice and also quite attractive. We will discuss advantages over the Boola Boola and other competitors and go through several different methods, varying in difficulty and speed, that one can use to tie a Somerville. We’ll also teach the Slipped Somerville, Reverse Somerville, and Two-Column Somerville and talk about the uses for each. In the end, we finish with a single tie that combines the Somerville techniques we’ve learned. Participants should bring one eight to ten-meter rope.


Dubious is a rigger and rope top from the NY area known for losing himself in slow scenes and tying in a connected and sensual style.

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Staying Submissive

It happens to the best of relationships, sometimes the dynamics just get out of whack. Some people say “life gets in the way”, but if you are trying to maintain a D/s or M/s dynamic, that is a big part of your life, so how do you work around the problems of work demands, financial issues, health complications? What can you do when your D or M type isn’t able to provide Their emotional / psychological part of the dynamic for a period of time? Frustrated, depressed, maybe even angry, how can you express your feelings and needs without acting out, lashing at your partner or giving up? Learn strategies to communicate effectively, assess and maintain your resources, create a support system and recognize and accept your limitations. Look at your priorities, needs and boundaries and explore if they are in agreement or working against each other. Share your coping strategies and learn from others.


Presented by: soumise

soumise brings her lifelong passions for movement, education, and helping people with her into the BDSM lifestyle. A former professional ballet dancer turned world ranked international style ballroom competitor, soumise has spent her 30 year career blending for the artistry of dance with the sciences of biomechanics, anatomy, kinesiology, rehabilitation and exercise. She creates and presents diverse workshops and educational events that engage, inform, and entertain participants of all levels in a variety of subjects across the US and abroad. She has enjoyed presenting at TESfest, GKE, Fetish Flea Market, NEEHU and EPIC. Her time is divided between working with her clients and students, training other instructors and helping her Master, Sir Vice, with His business, Limits Unleashed LLC. With her Master’s encouragement, soumise has been enjoying the integration of her professional interests with her lifestyle training and experiences.

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Strip Two Rooms and a Boom

Can you find your target? Have they been next to you the whole time? Can you plan ahead to make sure your team wins and gets to keep their clothes on? This game is a great way to break the ice and get to know each other….and why not get naked while you do?


Presented by HiddenGeek – I’m a shy top just learning how to navigate my way in this wonderful scene. As I find what works for me, I enjoy sharing it with others.

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Taking Your Time: Connective Tying

We discuss techniques for building and maintaining connection between the participants in a rope scene. The goal is to better give and take in scenes where we stay focused and immerse ourselves in tying sensually and with affection. We then will practice a variety of exercises together for tying in a slow, mindful and connective way. These activities assume little in the way of prior experience as the emphasis is on the participants themselves. Participants should bring one eight to ten-meter rope.


Presented by Dubious. Dubious is a rigger and rope top from the NY area known for losing himself in slow scenes and tying in a connected and sensual style.

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Tao of Degradation

Tao of Degradation: The Art and Practice of “Letting Go”

A philosophical and spiritual exploration of Degradation. Specifically, this class will delve into letting go of ego and how this can be used in both play and dynamics. General topics covered: nothingness, being “less than”, being an object, modifying speech, and protocols that involve Degradation. This is NOT a class on semantics.


Presented by nothing. nothing (aka boy maxwell) is a genderqueer, gray asexual bootblack and presenter with a passion for humiliation, degradation, and objectification as well as age play. They have taught for Geeky Kink Event Classic, Dark Odyssey, Indecent Enterprises, and Black Rose. P.S. bubbles.

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Under the Sea: Mermaid Ties

We present an introduction to ties that keep the legs of the rope bottom bound together. We begin only with the idea of reversing tension to create a pattern accessible to anyone first handling rope. We will then introduce hitches and locks to recreate a very sturdy version of what we’ve done before. We will discuss its uses in suspensions as well as difficulties it presents. Participants should bring six eight to ten-meter ropes.


Dubious is a rigger and rope top from the NY area known for losing himself in slow scenes and tying in a connected and sensual style.

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Video Games Meetup

videogamesDo you love video games or at least like them a little? Come discuss your favorite games in a low pressure and casual video game get together! Share your favorite games from years past, present and future. When all’s said and done you just mind find yourself filled with DETERMINATION.


BigMeatyClaws is a professional Web Developer who sometimes likes to write about things. A lover of technology, video games, film, and TV he has inoculated himself with pop culture. Also an avid internet user and meme looker-atter. Ask me about my DETERMINATION

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Violet Wand Store

2015violet-wand-e1419645901434We offer traditional & solid state Violet Wand Kits, a large selection of violet wand accessories, and conductive rope. A unique selection of paddles, canes, leather items and period style cutlery. In education, a selection of books & DVDs to enhance or explore a new skill!

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Violet Wands: History & Science

violetwand_antiqueThe History & Science Behind Violet Wands, or Tesla Spinning in his grave as a power source

Have you wondered just what’s going on those Violet Wands you’re zapping people with, or being zapped with? Want to know why Solid State and Traditional wands feel different? Are you curious about the history behind these wonderful/terrifying gadgets? Or, do you just want to see pretty waveforms on an oscilloscope responding to RF impulses in time to someone shrieking? Well, electricity is in the air (literally).


Geo (afrykid) was a kinkster before they even knew what one was. Around age 8, they started collecting medical quackery, including violet wands. About a decade later, they had an “aha” moment. Geo loves combining their geeky skills and kinky interests in fun ways, and using their ambivert tendencies to facilitate group experiences.

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Wax Play Social

Wax_play_on_backFollowing candle-lighting, there will be waxplay! This is NOT a class but it IS a great place to come and have fun, meet people, and try some sensual waxplay. This is a very informal event and is great for beginners and experts alike. Open communication and consent are warmly practiced here – want to feel wax or apply wax to someone? Just ask! We bring the wax, you bring the canvas. Feel free to bring wax of your own too!


Your friendly neighborhood science guy, Feivel always has hugs to give and probably something to blow up. Join us in Room 127 as always, for science, liquid nitrogen ice cream, and safe cuddle space. Join us in the pool for lasers. Join us Friday night for CandleLighting and Wax-Play. But mostly, just come and be happy. That’s what makes a Feivel purr.

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Why should I let you do that? Pre-Play Negotiation

Why should I let you do that? The importance of pre-play negotiation

This class talks about the important of pre-play negotiations for people of all kink orientations. Consent and revoking consent mid-scene will also be discussed.


Presented by Miss L and HappyforSlappy

Having been called the “cuddliest domme ever,” Miss L is good at helping people get in touch with the inner dom(me) that they didn’t think they had. When she’s not teaching or tormenting boys, she enjoys baking and crossword puzzles. Miss L serves on the advisory board for ClubFEM NYC and volunteers for several local kink groups. She has also presented at TES Fest, Conversio Virium at Columbia University, Twisted World, and GKE.

HappyforSlappy is a fun loving switch and has been involved in the New York seem for roughly 6 years, still excited to explore and is always trying to learn new things. He enjoys power exchange and loves to experiment with others. When he isn’t helping people explore themselves he enjoys playing chess and cooking. HappyforSlappy teaches pre-party classes in New York at “The Kinky Riot” events.

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Working Out the Kinks – Flexibility for the Mobility Impaired

Learn an effective and restorative workout for the body with a focus on mindful movement. Moving from the deepest muscles of the body outward will help you restore range of movement, improve alignment and joint stability while improving strength and neuromuscular connections. This workout is suitable for participants of a variety of fitness and mobility levels and variations will be suggested to adapt exercises to your personal needs.

Please bring a bath towel and wear something you will be comfortable moving in and bring or wear a pair of socks.


Presented by: soumise

soumise brings her lifelong passions for movement, education, and helping people with her into the BDSM lifestyle. A former professional ballet dancer turned world ranked international style ballroom competitor, soumise has spent her 30 year career blending for the artistry of dance with the sciences of biomechanics, anatomy, kinesiology, rehabilitation and exercise. She creates and presents diverse workshops and educational events that engage, inform, and entertain participants of all levels in a variety of subjects across the US and abroad. She has enjoyed presenting at TESfest, GKE, Fetish Flea Market, NEEHU and EPIC. Her time is divided between working with her clients and students, training other instructors and helping her Master, Sir Vice, with His business, Limits Unleashed LLC. With her Master’s encouragement, soumise has been enjoying the integration of her professional interests with her lifestyle training and experiences.

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Yes, All Genders: Beyond the Binary in Kink & BDSM

An open format panel in which we discuss the impact of being a transgender or non-binary individual in the BDSM and Kink communities.


deliriumPresented by Delirium. Delirium is a pansexual switch with a penchant for polyamory. You may be acquainted with this ambitious Androgyne as the Assistant Programming Director of Jeff Mach Events. Being a vehemently vocal advocate of intersectional feminisim, the ability to work for events that focus on inclusiveness & creating a safe space for all individuals is quite a fulfilling aspect of her life. As a bit of a workaholic with way too many hobbies, Delirium is always keen on sharing skills she specializes in with anyone who wants to learn. You can find her on fetlife as VulpineDelirium.

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zKilts

zkiltsBased out of Baltimore, zKilts is a new kilt vendor specializing in utility AND tartan kilts. Our selection has grown, now offering a variety of styles, colors, and lengths. Our color selection includes black, red, pink, purple, blue, olive, camo, and tan. Short kilts come in three lengths, 12, 14, and 16 inch. Long kilt lengths vary based on the style of kilt, ranging from 22 – 24 inches long.

Want a quality kilt at a GREAT price? We have you KILTED!

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