The Geeky Kink Event: New England

2017 Event Dates: August 11-13, 2017

The Holiday Inn of Hartford, CT

 The Geeky Kink Event: New England is a three-day kink event in Connecticut (2017) for geeks with a full-service dungeon, and plenty of programming, events, and vendors.

Registration is now open. Please click here, or on the icon below.


The next Geeky Kink Event Classic is in New Jersey on November 4-6, 2016.

Let us know what you thought of GKE:NE 2016 in Exile by filling out our FEEDBACK FORM!

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  • GKENE in Exile Feedback Form

    We want hear your opinions on GKE:NE in Exile 2016!

    The best way to share your feedback is to fill out the feedback form, so we have all of the feedback in a central location, and everyone who needs to see it at JME can do so!

    Thank you. We hope to see you at GKE Classic in November, and at GK:NE 2017 in Connecticut next August.

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  • Switches can’t be dominant

    Originally posted on Jeff’s journal on Fetlife. Click here to view comments or leave your own.

    Switches can’t be dominant

    …or so I have been told every single time I have submitted or bottomed in public.

    Admittedly, that’s not terribly frequent.

    For one thing, I have much more to offer as a dominant than as a submissive – but for another, it’s just not worth the challenge of deciding whether or not to defend my identity.

    I mean, to be honest, the sort of people who say “You’re not really dominant” aren’t usually people I’m going to respect in the first place.

    But letting the assertion go unanswered is pretty damn frustrating.

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  • Broken Magic: on recovering after losing D/s

    Originally posted on Jeff’s journal on Fetlife. Click here to view comments or leave your own.

    Most people I know who have suffered a loss of love tend look, as you would expect, like people in states of deep sadness and grief.

    Many people I know who have suffered a loss of D/s tend to look like their normal selves – only shellshocked.


    Their expressions seem oddly wooden. Their response times lag a little bit behind what would be normal for them. They sometimes look and act, to put it bluntly, almost like people with PTSD.

    I’m not speaking, here, of people who have necessarily suffered abuse. I’m just speaking of people who’ve lost some sort of powerful D/s connection.

    I see those people at events, at home, in social settings, and they often seem much like themselves – only they don’t smile so much, they don’t laugh so easily, and when I look at them – when I look at myself – that appearance is curiously hollow.

    Why is that? Why not ordinary grief? Why this numbed uncertainty?

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  • Semi-Annual Play Partners

    I saw them again!

    In a variety of outfits distilled down to mouth-watering perfection, my semi-annual play partners (SAPPs) emerged from the depths of the con.

    Like it always is, we re-meet in a tight embrace with our names on each other’s lips. A million stories wait eagerly behind each moniker. Without a doubt, these are the people I spend the majority of my time at GKE with, tucked into vending rooms or a stolen class hour or two.


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